When was the first time you heard about or experienced love? Did you know that you know this moment, did you feel the, love?
Our experiences of love differ because we all feel loved in different ways. My first memory I vividly remember when I first felt loved was when my mother proudly showed my handwriting to fellow mums saying how much she loved it! I felt the love. I felt a sense of belonging and wanted!
I was only four if not three. See to me this was pure love and I felt I connected with my mother. This is the way love is. It is pure! Growing up in my teenage years I later knew about romantic love through soap operas. And boy! I believed what those soaps shared. For me, I believed a man from a rich family would come and marry me with true faithful love. I believed the only thing I had to do was to be in the relationship to receive and give love! Life has it that we all get to understand love as we grow up. We tend to stop having the blurriness of what love is and what love is not.
So, dear reader, what is love? What do you want from love? What does love want from you?
So what are some of the ways you will choose to do intentionally within your influence to lead a life of significance?
These are some of the question Love Restoration answers so that a woman is set free to explore love in a healthy manner. Diana Nyangah’s experience shows how the program has influenced how she shows up in the love space. On Get This we learn what kind of significant marks love had on us and how we can spread significant marks as we learn an amazing yet easy life hack on Teach Us Something Today!!
WHOA! LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING!!
My Journey of Understanding Love
- from Diana Nyangah
I experienced frustration in my love space over and over again! I kept asking myself, “What is it was I doing wrong? Why was I unable to have and maintain healthy relationships?” This dilemma led me to take the program.
During the program it dawned on me that what I believed affected the reality I was facing. I had believed that my social status was not good enough to attract what I perceived as good men. This made me feel ashamed.
I kept asking myself, “What is it was I doing wrong? Why was I unable to have and maintain healthy relationships?” This dilemma led me to take the program.
My greatest highlight was to be able to share my experience in a vulnerable and authentic way in a safe space. I realized that despite all that is around me and my physical attributes, I have a treasure within me. This led me to begin valuing myself, remove the pressure to settle down because of my age being that I am in my mid-thirties. I now seek my identity in this space as a child of God and not from the varies roles I play in life.
Google shows that significance has more to with the impact or influence a person; something has on its surroundings. So this quote presumes that love leaves significant marks on a life of an individual. Think about that for a moment. What are some of the beautiful significant marks love has on your life is it purpose, support, protection, provision. How about the ugly marks? What is the most painful significant mark love has had on you? Jealous, envy, unhealthy self-esteem, hopelessness. Love Restoration is for you then, whether single, married, separated, contemplating separation love leaves a significant mark on all of us. Come learn how to make love work in your life.
My Journey of Understanding Love
I kept asking myself, “What is it was I doing wrong? Why was I unable to have and maintain healthy relationships?” Diana Nyangah shares her experience on how the Love Restoration program has influenced how she shows up in the love space.
Today on Teach us Something, we learn on some of the natural methods of preserving potatoes if they are to be consumed a following day and had to be prepared earlier.
Well, this is very usual in events. Don’t stress about it. Spread pieces of any white bread on them and voila!! in the morning the potatoes will be as fresh as they were.
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