My Confidence Journey
When I signed up to do the Revamp confidence Program at Alabastron, I was going through season after season of self doubt and feeling like a fake. I was feeling like I could not achieve certain dreams in my life because of weaknesses I had in my life, and weaknesses that people around me would keep on highlighting, pin pointing and persecuting me about. This had made me become very defensive and my default style of communication and self expression was passive-aggressiveness. At the same time, I was increasingly feeling like there are certain ventures like business, certain job descriptions positions in my career life and public speaking that were not for me.
During the program, my biggest take out was about the things am certain about and giving myself permission to do life imperfectly, I made the decision to do away with perfectionism altogether.
During the program, my biggest take out was about the things am certain about and giving myself permission to do life imperfectly, I made the decision to do away with perfectionism altogether. I have also realized that I need to get rid of the idea of “my ideal self” . This “ideal self “ has been the person I have all along been saying is the one am waiting for to attain certain goals and in the end I have been sabotaging myself through procrastination and false self confidence, which makes me feel unauthentic.
I have learnt which things to be assertive about, be passive and which ones to pursue with aggressiveness without feeling like a fake
Currently, I am becoming more deliberate in identifying which style of communication to use for various situations in my life. I have learnt which things to be assertive about, be passive and which ones to pursue with aggressiveness without feeling like a fake, since I know what my motive is and what am certain and sure about.
I have a lot self awareness in my work life and I have learnt to get to where I want using the coaching I received during the Revamp your confidence program
I have become more organized and I have also learnt to ask for what I want, confidently, as opposed to waiting to be offered or given what I think I deserve. The best part is, I have a lot self awareness in my work life and I have learnt to get to where I want using the coaching I received during the Revamp your confidence program.