A Bold Shift to Heal From Anger and Embrace Peace
Life throws many things at everyone. Sometimes you are in rhythm with life like a river accurately meandering on its riverbanks. Other times you are barely grasping for air as you drown. It is during these moments that we can easily get engulfed into the motions. Anger is one of the most common emotions we feel intensely. This is because we feel that we lack of control on everything; not knowing what to look forward to. Thereby, anger can easily become a norm.
How then should a woman facing life's unpredictable situations without holding on to anger? Patricia shared how she has embraced peace and returned back to her rightful position in her life below.
I came to know about Alabastron through Facebook. At the time, I was in a bad shape emotionally. I was totally drained and my life had no purpose. I was living life dead! I scrolled through the comments on the post and I knew this is a place I want to be .I attended the open day and I made a decision to join the Renewing Self Program. The best decision I ever made in my life.
I was angry at life. I had failed relationships, betrayed by people I thought were my friends, and to top it up I had a failed business through a trusted employee. This made me bitter and resentful. I picked fights with everyone. I resulted to neglecting myself because I felt I didn't deserve anything or anyone worthy in my life. I ended up an alcoholic.
How my anger manifested is by fighting. I would fight with everyone. A petty issue would become a mountain for me to deal with. During the program, I was able to look into my life introspectively. I was able to understand my triggers and I began my journey of healing. I have now learnt to love myself. This is because I was able to detox and give room to receive the love of God.
I have embraced that my identity isn’t found in my past. Rather, it is a place for me to look with hope and joy of the lessons it has brought out in me and for me. I have begun setting boundaries in my life which has boosted my self esteem because I am able to express myself. I have noticed that since I have clarity on my self worth, I have rejected external affirmation and validation.
The most intimate thing I have picked for myself is my renewed relationship with God. I have began personalizing God's word and reading it for myself.
The most intimate thing I have picked for myself is my renewed relationship with God. I have began personalizing God's word and reading it for myself. This growth is evident even with my relationship with myself and others. Do you know before I would feel guilty of gifting myself? I always believed that I had to come last. Somehow I used to fix my needs after everyone’s needs leaving myself out of the equation. Now, I have began prioritizing myself. I am protecting my own needs and meeting each of them confidently.
I would recommend Alabastron over and over for lifting, teaching, reminding and putting women in their right position. It's the best Christian organization so far that has anchored me back to my rightful position. Sign up here to return back to your position even when you seem to have lost control of what's happening in life.
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